When trust breaks, you don’t have to face what comes next alone.
Specialized counselling for individuals and couples healing from infidelity, betrayal and relationship rupture.
Registered Social Worker · EFT + EMDR · NIHB-Approved · Direct Billing Available
Licensed in Alberta and Ontario.
You may be here because…
You discovered a betrayal
Overwhelmed, unsure what to believe or do next.
You broke the trust
Ready to understand what happened and if repair is possible.
You're rebuilding together
Ready to restore safety and stop the same painful arguments.
Wherever you're starting from, you'll be met with care and without judgment.
Find the Right SupportYour therapy may already be covered.
Tolu is an NIHB-approved provider and accepts direct insurance billing with most major insurers — so you may only pay what your plan doesn't cover.
- Direct billing for eligible plans
- NIHB-approved provider
- Support confirming your coverage
- Receipts provided when direct billing is unavailable
Includes Canada Life, Manulife, Desjardins, Green Shield Canada, Equitable and more — see the full list.
Coverage depends on your individual plan — we'll help confirm it before your first paid session.
Focused care for betrayal, affairs and broken trust
Not general relationship advice — specialized help for physical, emotional, financial and online infidelity, using EFT and EMDR to help you:
- Process shock, grief and intrusive thoughts
- Understand the patterns beneath the rupture
- Communicate without escalating or shutting down
- Rebuild emotional safety and trust
- Decide whether to stay together or separate with clarity
- Recover your confidence and sense of self
Starting therapy can be simple.
Book a free consultation
Choose a convenient time for a confidential 15-minute conversation.
Tell us what you need
We will discuss what is happening, what support may fit and whether your insurance can be billed directly.
Begin with clarity
Meet online or in person and start moving toward healing, repair or a peaceful next step.
Meet Tolu Folarin
Registered Social Worker, MSW, BSW, RSW
Warm, structured, and paced to you — helping individuals and couples process betrayal and rebuild from it, whatever that looks like for you.
- Practising since 2019
- Master of Social Work
- Registered Social Worker
- EFT and EMDR approaches
- Psychology Today verified
- Available in person and online
Trusted by fellow professionals
Endorsements shared publicly by colleagues on Psychology Today.
“Tolu is exceptionally skilled in working with betrayal trauma. She brings deep sensitivity, steadiness and care to the healing process, creating a safe space where clients can process profound hurt without being rushed, judged or retraumatized.”
“Tolu provides such a grounded space for healing. She uses proven methods like EFT and EMDR to help you navigate the heavy weight of betrayal, whether you're looking for individual or couples therapy.”
“Tolu brings warmth and professionalism to her work with couples recovering from betrayal. She creates space for honest conversations and emotional reconnection.”
Questions before getting started?
Do you offer direct insurance billing?
Yes. Direct billing is available for eligible insurance plans. Coverage depends on your provider and individual plan. We can help you confirm your options before your first paid session.
Do you work with both partners?
Yes. Tolu works with couples as well as individuals who have been betrayed or were responsible for the betrayal.
Do we have to know whether we want to stay together?
No. You do not need to make that decision before beginning therapy. Sessions can help you process what happened and determine your next step with greater clarity.
Are online appointments available?
Yes. Secure online sessions are available for clients in Alberta and Ontario.
Is the consultation free?
Yes. The initial 15-minute consultation is free and helps determine whether the service is the right fit for you.
You do not have to carry this alone.
Healing is possible — together or apart. Take the first step today.
Accepting new individual and couples clients.